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Dear Ash

Ash replies:

Envy is a very negative emotion and it is clearly having a detrimental impact on you. However, your colleague is being both unfair and unprofessional; if he has an issue he should be challenging his boss about it and not directing his frustrations at you.

You have clearly demonstrated your worth by working hard – do not let your colleague’s comments affect you in any way or make you feel guilty.

I suggest that you make clear to him that you are under no obligation to justify your position to him, and that if he does have any issues he should take this up with your boss directly. If he fails to back down, make clear that you will have to take it up with your boss. If he does think that you are favoured then he clearly will not want your boss to be aware of his issues!

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